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Making a choice is always very difficult especially when you have to
choose a name for the newborn ----a name that is special and unique. To
be unique can often be misconstrued for idiosyncratic behavior. This
then makes us redouble our efforts to strike a balance between
uniqueness and eccentricity. You do not want a common name, you want to
make the child feel extra special but at the same time you do not want
the child to encounter problems because of the name that you have
conferred on him. That is why selecting a unique name is difficult.
Choosing a unique name for the baby is a very serious task because so
much depends on it and choosing from a hundred or thousand names can be
mind-boggling. You want to be highly individualistic and non-conformistic
----absolutely exceptional while doing so. You want to create a name
that sets it apart from other names. There are many things that can be
unique about the name. The name itself may be something that you have
never heard before or the spelling may be different. The bottom line is
that it is not similar to anything that we have heard of or a novel
variation to what we have heard. Originality and creativity are the
denominators of a unique name. Common names of places, flowers and
colors are converted into unique names, or an unusual punctuation makes
it vastly different.
Although people are tolerant there are certain pockets of society, which
just wait for an opportunity for a laugh. By giving the baby a unique
name, you could just trigger off a minor landslide. The name may be fine
when the child is young but as it grows older, they may land in a
situation where they constantly have to repeat or spell their names if
it is different from the normal way it is said or spelt. This could be
traumatic for the child and could lead to it being teased, as it grows
older. So while being unique is all very fine, what should be remembered
is that the name should not be suggestive of anything that is silly or
undesirable. When you create a unique name for the baby, you are in a
sense recreating yourself by trying to be special. Just keep in mind
that the baby’s future is at stake. What’s in a name?-- Almost
everything although you may deny it.
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