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CYBER CRIME IN INDIA : CYBER STALKING - Online harassment. IN INDIA, YOU CAN REPORT CYBER CRIME TO YOUR NEAREST CYBER CRIME CELL OR CBI. - CLICK HERE FOR CONTACT DETAILS Is Cyberstalking , cyber harassment prevalent in India? |
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What is Cyber stalking, Who is a cyber stalker, Who is the victim & what motivates a cyber stalker. Is there a solution? |
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What is Cyber stalking? Cyber stalking is when a person is followed and pursued online. Their privacy is invaded, their every move watched. It is a form of harassment, and can disrupt the life of the victim and leave them feeling very afraid and threatened Stalking or being 'followed' are problems that many people, especially women, are familiar with. Sometimes these problems (harassment & stalking) can occur over the Internet. This is known as cyber stalking. The internet mirrors the real world. That means it also reflects real life & real people with real problems. Although it is rare, Cyber stalking does occur. Cyber Stalking usually occurs with women, who are stalked by men, or children who are stalked by adult predators or paedophiles. A cyber stalker does not have to leave his home to find, or harass his targets, and has no fear of physical violence since he believes he cannot be physically touched in cyberspace. He maybe may be on the other side of the earth or a neighbour or even a relative! And a stalker could be of either sex. Typically, the cyber stalker's victim is new on the web, and inexperienced with the rules of netiquette & internet safety. Their main targets are the mostly females, children, emotionally weak or unstable, etc. It is believed that Over 75% of the victims are female, but sometimes men are also stalked. The figures are more on assumed basis and the actual figures can really never be known since most crimes of such natures go unreported.
What does a cyber stalker look like?
Cyber stalkers
can be categorized into
3 types. (Sometimes
these categories may overlap ).
1)The common obsessional cyber stalker
The
common obsessional stalker refuses to believe that their
relationship is over. Do not be misled by believing this stalker is
harmlessly in love.
2)The delusional cyber stalker The next type is the delusional stalker. They may be suffering from some mental illness like schizophrenia etc & have a false belief that keeps them tied to their victims. They assume that the victim loves them even though they have never met. A delusional stalker is usually a loner & most often chooses victims who are married woman, a celebrity or doctors, teachers, etc.. Those in the noble & helping professions like doctors, teachers etc are at often at risk for attracting a delusional stalker. Delusional stalkers are very difficult to shake off. 3)The vengeful cyber stalker.
These cyber stalkers
are angry at their
victim due to some minor reason- either real or imagined. Typical
examples are disgruntled employees. These stalkers may be stalking to get even
& take revenge and believe that "they" have been
victimized. Ex-spouses can turn into this type of stalker.
1. Online harassment & cyber stalking that occurs & continues on the internet. 2. Online harassment and stalking that begins to be carried on offline too. This is when a stalker may attempt to trace a telephone number or a street address. Always be careful what details you give out over the web and to whom.
This should not surprise anyone,
especially women, since sexual harassment is also a very common experience
offline. The internet reflects real life & consists of real people.
It's not a separate, regulated or sanctified world. The very nature of anonymous communications also makes it easier to be a stalker on
the internet than a stalker offline 2)Obsession for love This could begin from an online romance, where one person halts the romance and the
rejected lover cannot accept the end of the relationship. It could also be an
online romance that moves to real life, only to break-up once the persons
really meet. Then one person again cannot accept the NO. Sometimes, this obsession stalking can even start from real life and then move over to
cyberspace. One of the problems with obsession stalking is that since it often starts as real romance,
much personal information is shared between persons involved. This makes
it easy for the cyber stalker to harass their victim. Some
users online enjoy "breaking hearts" as a pastime, and so may
well set up obsessions for their own enjoyment - games that they may
later regret having played. Sometimes, an obsession can also be a
fixation by a stranger on another user for no valid
reason. Since these obsession stalkers live in a dream world, it is not always
necessary for the target to have done anything to attract her
(or his) attention in the first place. Obsession stalkers are usually jealous and
possessive people.Death threats via email or through live chat messages are a
manifestation of obsession stalking. 3)Revenge
& Hate. This could be
an argument that has gone out of hand, leading eventually to a hate &
revenge relationship. Revenge vendettas are
often the result of something you may have said or done online which may
have offended someone. Vendettas often begin with arguments
where you may have been rude to another user. Sometimes, hate cyber stalking
is for no reason at all (out of
the blue)- you will not know why you
have been targeted nor what you have done, and you may not even know who
it is who is doing this to you & even the cyber stalker does not know
you. In fact you have NOT been individually targeted at all - you have been
chosen as a random target by someone who
does not know you !! This stalker may be using the net to let out his
frustrations online. 4)Ego & Power Trips These are harassers or stalkers online showing off their skills to themselves and
their friends. They do not have any grudge against you - they are
rather using you to 'show-off' their power to their friends or doing
it just for fun and you have been unlucky enough to
have been chosen.
Most people who receive threats online imagine their harasser
to be large and powerful. But in fact the threat may come from a child who
does not really have any means of carrying out the physical threats made.
It
is estimated that there are about 2,00,000 real-life stalkers in America
today. Roughly one in 1,250 persons is a stalker - and that is a large
ratio. Of course, no one knows the truth, since the Internet is such a
vast medium, but these figures are as close as it gets to giving
statistics. Out of the estimated 79 million population worldwide on the
internet at any given time, we could find 63,000 internet stalkers
travelling the information superhighway, stalking approximately 4,74,000
victims.
But
is Cyberstalking prevalent is it in India?? The
answer is YES.
In India's first case of
cyberstalking, Manish Kathuria was recently arrested by the New
Delhi Police. He was stalking an Indian lady, Ms Ritu Kohli by
illegally chatting on the Web site MIRC using
her name. He used obscene and obnoxious language, and distributed
her residence telephone number, inviting people to chat with her on
the phone. As a result of which, Ritu kept getting obscene calls
from everywhere, and people promptly talked dirty with her. In a
state of shock, she called the Delhi police and reported the matter.
For once, the police department did not waste time swinging into
action, traced the culprit and slamed a case under Section 509
of the Indian Penal Code for outraging the modesty of Ritu Kohli. Click
here to for some more cyber crime cases registered in India.
So, how
would you protect yourself?
A cyber stalker looks for
weaknesses in people. He or she is cunning & crafty. People looking for sympathy or wanting to make friends, find romance
online etc are an open invitation to many types of stalkers.
NO ONE has a right to harass, threaten and
disturb you. Once harassment becomes
a threat against you, then the
harasser has also broken the law and there are a number of steps you CAN
take to deal with it including taking help of the Police department. Trying to work out what you have "done" to deserve this will
get you nowhere - the attack or harassment will often appear as motiveless
and you may have difficulty understanding the psychology of the harasser.
With some kinds of online harassment it is better not to waste time trying
to work out "why" and to concentrate rather on what you can do
to protect yourself & how to end this nightmare.
Kids &
Teens: You must tell your parents immediately! If you feel
threatened by someone that you know your parents wouldn't want you talking
to in the first place, you MUST overcome your fears of "getting in
trouble" for admitting you were talking to them, and tell your
Parents that you're in trouble
Adults: Tell your
spouse and family, and be prepared for an uphill battle, as many states do
not have cyber stalking laws in effect yet. If anyone is harassing you or you kids by stalking them
online & has
begun to disturb you or put your life at risks, you must file a
written complaint to the Commissioner of Police in your city. The
Mumbai police recently (Novenber 2000) helped rescue a 16 year old boy who was
kidnapped by a lady paedophile. She befriended him through a chat room.
So remember, If you are being stalked,
you don't have to be a victim. And yes, If possible stay away from chat
rooms & don't flirt around there. This is just like real life. If you think
you have the right to flirt with strangers be prepared for the
consequences. The Golden rule our parents taught us "Never talk
to strangers" stays a golden rule in today's Cyber world !! And
the The BEST way to
avoid getting stalked is to ALWAYS maintain a high level of safety
awareness.
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