| Chatting and Corresponding
AS FAR AS POSSIBLE NEVER TALK TO
STRANGERS.
Unfortunately, Chat rooms are what kids
enjoy most. They are also often the most dangerous
places online, especially for a child who is not Internet-savvy. Meeting people from the Internet
is not a good idea at all; don't ever give them your phone number or
address. YES. Never give your name, address or phone number to
anyone. This is especially true for kids. You really don't know who
the person is that you are chatting or corresponding with. Remember
that people online may not be who they seem. Because you
can't see or even hear the person it would be very easy for someone
to misrepresent him or herself. Thus, someone indicating that
"she" is a "12-year-old-girl" could in reality
be an older man.
Kids - make sure that your parents know that you are chatting,
where you're chatting, with whom you're chatting, and what
information you are giving people. As far as possible NEVER talk with
strangers.
Parents - if you have a child that is chatting or corresponding
with someone, set guidelines as to what information is and is not
allowed to be given out. Take a look at the place where your child
is chatting and see what kind of conversations take place.
Discourage your child from talking to strangers. Innocent children
can easily be misled by
paedophiles.
Everyone should feel safe! If you are beginning to receive
messages or email that you don't like, tell the person that you are
receiving them from that you do not like what they are
saying. If this doesn't stop the unwanted information do something
about it. What can you do? If you are chatting, most chat houses
have chat masters that you can e-mail and let them know what is
happening. You can cut and paste the messages that you are receiving
and place them in the e-mail that you send to the chat master. If
you are receiving unwanted e-mail, then send an e-mail to the
person's e-mail provider with the same information stated above.
These actions normally resolve the problem. An unwanted or
unsolicitated e- mail is called a spam. To know how to deal
with such unwanted E-mails from unknown people visit
Filling out Forms
1. Never include any information in a form that you fill out that
gives people your e-mail or homepage password.
2. Never include your social security number, drivers license
number, or credit card numbers.
3. If you are making a purchase on the internet that requires any of
this information, make sure that you are using a form on a secure
site. If you are using Netscape, they have a feature where you see a
key in the lower left hand corner. If the key is broken you are not
in a secure site. This means that any information that you submit
can be intercepted by hackers or anyone else that has the knowledge
to grab the information.
4. Kids - make sure that your parents know that you are filling
out forms and that they approve of the information that you are
providing on the forms.
5. Again, don't provide your address or phone number on forms
that you fill out. Most forms include these questions as optional
information, when it's optional don't give it.
General Surfing
Don't open up any e-mail or
attached files or web pages that you receive from people you don't
know. If it looks suspicious or odd, delete it or ask an adult to
look at it first. It could possibly contain viruses.
Adults shouldn't have any problems with general surfing. If you
don't like what you're seeing, leave.
Don't download any applications from the internet that are from
questionable sites. Many sites have viruses which come free with the
downloads ! Better be safe than to be sorry.
Places like Crescendo, Netscape, Microsoft and other popular
place, do have some "trial" software or shareware that you
can download and these tend to be safe.
Kids - only surf where your parents have given you permission.
There's a reason why they restrict your surfing area and you should
listen to them. If a web page
looks suspicious or has a warning page about you being underage,
leave immediately. Do not go exploring. If you come across a site that you aren't sure about
TELL your parents. Passwords
are a secret so don't give it out your passwords to anyone except an
adult you trust in your home.
Parents, a good idea for younger children is to have a set of
bookmarks that are especially their own, filled with great kids safe
sites that you have screened. Install
filtering software or child-safe browsers. which prevent
children from accessing undesirable sites. Even if you don't have
extra software, most browsers today come with in-built security
features. Like in Internet explorer 5.0, go to Tools>Internet
options and click on the security tab. You can customize security
settings or choose from the one's there.
If possible, route your child's e-mail through your account and
share their password. Also, Keep the computer
in a central family location, not in the child's room. The computer
should be a family activity. Most of all set an example to them
through your good surfing habits. Children tend to copy their
parents. We wish you happy and safe surfing :-)
| Should you become aware the existence of any
Vulgar or indecent materials involving your child or any
incidence of harassment, immediately
notify your local Police station or contact the Police
Commissioner’s Office in your city or town. Although
difficult, the person
concerned might be traceable with Police help and punished
severely for Criminal offences and other violations under
India's I.T Act 2000. |
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