Child Discipline Parenting Tips ..
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Child Discipline : Children are not born knowing how to be well behaved. They
need help and guidance from parents and other careers - and as all parents know
this isn't always an easy job. Here are some ways and tips suggested on Child
discipline.
Know what constitutes 'normal' behavior in children. Opening kitchen cupboards and dragging every saucepan on to the kitchen floor isn't naughty for a two year old child, for instance - it just means he or she wants to find out more about her surroundings. It's also very common for four-year-olds to quarrel with their younger brothers and sisters.
Talking to
other parents with children of the same age is one way of finding out what is
normal at what age - many parents are often relieved to learn that other
children are behaving in much the same way. |
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Teaching children by way of example
One way children learn is by imitating & copying others. This is why parents need to
behave in ways which set good examples. It's important that we, as parents, show
respect for children - Naturally, children who are shown respect themselves will show
respect to others. Although children need to know they are unique individuals,
they also need to know they are part of a group too. This is why we need to
teach them to share, to listen to others and to take turns.
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Think about what to say and how you speak to your child Use the same tone of voice with children as you want people to use with you. Talk respectfully to them and about them. It's very tempting to ridicule children in the hope that constantly pointing out bad behavior will make them stop doing it. But this often has the opposite effect. Children soon learn that they get attention by doing things parents don't like. A better way to encourage good behavior is to remember to praise them as often. This doesn't mean never reprimanding them for doing something wrong. But it's important to criticize the child's behaviour rather than the child as a person. Instead of saying, "You are very naughty", say something like, "I don't like what you're doing", or, "We won't allow that behavior". |
Set limits for your child
Let children know what behavior is allowed and what isn't. Setting limits makes them feel secure. Be consistent about what is and what isn't
acceptable.
Accept a child's right to say, "No", sometimes - especially about things that
affect only the child - such as which clothes he/she wants to wear. Remember
that children need to learn that saying, "No", is sometimes a good thing.
Saying, "No", to strangers, for instance, may be the safest thing to do.
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Praise and hug children when they co-operate, as this encourages them to behave
well.
Don't expect more from children than they are capable of doing.
Although a five year old can be expected to sit still in a doctor's waiting
room, you can't expect a two year old to do the same. Be tolerant and keep the
child's age in mind. Develop patience. You will need it !
Avoid smacking / hitting / physical punishment as it only teaches children that violence is the best
way of maintain control and it encourages them to hit other children.
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