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Primary Schoolers Bullying
The Bullied Child
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Primary Schoolers Bullying
- Bullying is when one
person attacks another with words, hands, feet, dirty looks, rumours or
rudeness. The person who is attacked is upset and afraid of being attacked
again.
- Bullies attack in all
sorts of ways. They can bully a person about their looks, the way they
dress , their race, family, culture or choice of friends
- The more upset the
bullied person becomes the more the bully likes it.
- Children don't like
telling about bullying because:
- telling is 'dobbing'
- they may be ashamed
- they are being bullied
about something they would rather not talk about
- they feel they deserve
it
- they think things will
get worse if parents, teachers or friends get involved
- they may have been
threatened not to tell anyone 'or else!'
- Most children are picked
on because other children see them as weaker or stronger.
- Parents have many
feelings when they find out that their child is being bullied. They may
feel helpless, afraid, ashamed, guilty, protective, angry or confused and
say things like:
- 'What were you doing
to annoy them?'
- 'Just ignore them' or
'Walk away'
- 'Why don't you fight
back?'.
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Find out if your child's school
has a way of dealing with bullying.
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