Primary Schoolers Misbehavior

Primary Schoolers Misbehavior

• It's often difficult for parents to understand why children continue to do things we don't want them to do.
• Children need simple, clear instructions. For instance if the child is being too noisy, ask them to be quiet and explain why. See that the instruction is obeyed. If you say 'Stop being silly' it is not clear what you want the child to do.
• Follow your instructions through by calmly doing the task with the child. This shows what is wanted. This tells the child 'I am serious about what I say'.
• When a child repeatedly misbehaves it might be for one of these reasons:
  • attention
  • a cry for help
  • lack of skills
  • power
  • revenge
  • frustration
  • misunderstanding.
• We can help children by:
  • listening to them
  • giving them our full attention several times a day
  • encouraging them to solve their own problems
  • giving them responsibility and praise for things they can do
  • acknowledging their feelings
  • keeping the communication lines open
  • being consistent.
  • making sure the tasks and activities are appropriate to your child's age and development.

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