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Primary Schoolers Social Development
- All children need a
friend. With this friend they'll experience many new things. When they
feel secure with this friend they'll branch out and make more friends.
- Children in middle
childhood often have more than one 'best friend'.
- School children are
often very clear who their friends are. ('You're my friend' or 'I'm not
your friend any more'). Children can 'make up' after arguments and keep
friends over several years.
- Encourage children to
socialise with children their own age - both in and out of school.
- Friendships will develop
and their importance will increase. Same sex friendships are more common
in middle childhood.
- Family, neighbours,
friends, teachers and people in the community are all important to
children. Through these people they learn things about age, employment and
community roles. They like to see and do new things and will join in if
they feel comfortable.
- Children like being with
other people but they need to learn and practice social skills.
- Children learn to
understand the needs and expectations of other people and act accordingly.
- Children need:
- good role models so
they learn positive behaviour
- trust, honesty and
care
- simple, clear
explanations about how people behave in the home and community
- different ways of
dealing with problems as they arise
- someone to listen to
them
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someone to believe in them
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