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Toddlers Acceptable Behaviour
- Children need to know
what is acceptable behaviour and what is not. It helps to fix rules so all
parents and caregivers expect the same thing.
- You must decide as a
family what is acceptable behaviour:
- Is it okay to shout
inside sometimes? If so, when?
- Is it okay to yell and
scream? If so, when?
- Toddlers also need to
tell you what their problems are. When they choose unsuitable ways of
letting you know, tell them why you don't like the way they went about it.
- Do not try to reason
with or talk calmly to a child when they are in the middle of yelling,
screaming or throwing a tantrum.
- Help them to find better
ways to let you know what they want and use the same methods yourself. You
should say their name, sit next to them and give them a hug.
- Make
sure you DO notice when they try to act better. By avoiding the power game
and working together you will both feel more relaxed. Remember, some days
are better than others. Don't give up!
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